I 22M started hanging out with this dude 24M in my first year of med school. He was a good friend and very crass and extroverted. We had a lot of common topics and it was all good. As the years passed and now we’re both in our fourth year of med school. I had to retake two subjects in my second year and one in my third year. The guy, didn’t fail any subject. Along the way he had fallen in love with seven or eight girls in the duration of eight years. Most of his life’s problems arose from the fact that he couldn’t stay single and always had to be involved with someone, even if he knew they weren’t going to end up together or they were not good for each other. He did some very unforgivable things too but i was polite enough to let it slide as i did not have a problem with him whoring around fucking who ever he wanted. It was his life and his choices. After i failed two subjects in my second year i went into very bad depression. I was on lots of medication and somehow passed those subjects. I used to joke about it as it didn’t bother me that much because failing is a part of medical school after all. The friend I mentioned earlier got deeper and deeper into the girl rabbit hole and finally at one point i sat him down and explained that he needs to take it easy and not think with his dick all the time. Mind you, the country where i live doesn’t allow extra marital sex while this mf was bringing girls in my apartment’s parking and fucking them in his car where any security guard could have easily caught him. This would have had very extreme consequences. Im talking jail time and heavy fines. After the talk i had with him to stop whoring around so much he got mad and said i should stop acting like i was his father. I was very offended that i was offering him genuine advice and this was how he acted. After i failed my third year pharmacology exam which wasn’t my fault, he started joking a little too much about it. Used to call me incompetent and slow and retarded while we had a group study. Asked me things all of a sudden and made it a whole scene that i failed because of my own ineptitude. I confronted him about this too and he didn’t respect the one boundary i had put up since the day we met. This infuriated me. He regularly crashed at my place (sometimes high which is also very illegal here, sometimes only to fuck someone near my place which is just using me for his own benefit) used me for free food and free rides, gas money you name it. I felt very used and even more so that i appeared to be the same whore he was while i didn’t do any of the things he did.

Earlier this week i finally cut ties with him by telling him that my mom and dad found out that he was bringing girls over to have sex and they told me to stop letting him come over and to also stop having any ties with him whatsoever. In all of this, he still managed to become the victim somehow. I need second opinions as i am not entirely sure if i did the right thing.