📝 AITAH for embarrassing him in front of his friends

By GlitteringFinance907 • Score: 2 • April 9, 2025 2:14 AM


I met a boy at a party. He asked to dance with me and got my number. Next morning he texted me hi and we chatted everyday for a month. We never met because he was in a different city we only chatted on phone. From the things he said he seemed like the guy I would’ve wanted for a long term relationship. NGL I kind of fell in love. I’m from a south Asian country. In our culture casual relationships, flings, situationships are not a thing. It’s more like if you’re dating someone you should end up getting married. If not it’s kind of a shame 🤷‍♀️ So I was planning to get to know this person and if he’s a good partner for me tell my parents. I needed a serious relationship. A month passed by but I felt like we’re getting nowhere in this. Felt like he’s getting advantageous from me cuz he was always asking me about sx stuff. Which I didn’t wanna talk about since we’re not in a actual relationship. Never asked me out or expressed any feelings just texting. One day I asked him why he asked for my number and wanted to talk to me. He said something and he said that he lied about his age and he’s younger than me. I was crushed. I would never date younger boy. He said he’s my age when we first talked. I stopped talking to him. ( dating younger guys was not my thing-at all) He reached out several times. I also texted him just as a friend and because we work at the same company. Another 2 months went and I decided to forgive him and chatted with him like first days. Again I felt like it’s not going anywhere he just wants to chat with when he’s lonely and when he wants to talk about sx. Then mom caught me texting and scolded me for being stupid to talk to him. She said this is not good thing and he’s not good person at all. Then I got a letter to my home address from his girlfriend. It was anonymous and she said to stay away from her bf. Mom saw them and scolded me again. So I blocked him. I had enough with his lies. Then I met him at another party. He was with his friends I was with my friends. When he saw me he got my hand pull towards him. I said no loudly and left the room. Then came to several times to talk to me but I said no every time. The day after the party I unblock him and told him to never talk to ever again. He blamed me for overeating and embarrassing him. I told about the letters and he said it must be a prank. Then my friend told me that he tried to flirt with me when rejected him at the party. I confronted him about that too but he denied. I can’t trust him anymore so I stopped the conversation. So am I wrong guys??? Please tell honestly🥺

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