Okay in normal every-day life things are super equal between us. We have a common bank acc where we put the same amounts together each month. We use it to buy groceries, stuff for the house - it's all great.

However, when we go on holidays things aren't quite the same. We will sit down at a restaurant and ill have a meal and a drink; and he'll have the same plus a salad, adessert, beer, and a coffee. And this it at every place we sit to eat. I can't keep up with him (and I don't want to have to order more just to be "even") and we always pay together. Now imagine a 14 day holiday where this happens 2-3 times a day. I wouldn't say it's in any way significant, but it does bother me.

I feel like an absolute asshole for even thinking about this and I'm having a hard time keeping it to myself. Is it me that's the problem?