I 27f got into an argument with my bf (26m) tonight which is his birthday because it felt he started grilling me after explaining why I don’t agree with what he was saying (leading me to believe we actually don’t share the same values like I originally thought). We’re both white. He made a statement “All black people hate white people”. I visibly cringed and replied “Can you show me the statistics to back up that statement?” and I felt like he got very defensive and offended I didn’t just agree with him, then had the audacity to say “What would it take to make you more racist?” (Obviously upsetting me even more) I replied with “Nothing”, tried to explain how I believe it’s all hate speech trying to divide our society even more and then he asks “Have you ever dated a black guy” which I assume was his bruised ego and insecurities speaking. Then the next 30 minutes or so I felt like he was asking me multiple questions in a row before I could even answer, essentially manipulating the conversation in my opinion.