📝 Aitah for feeling this way

By Ambr_17 • Score: 4 • April 24, 2025 1:08 AM


Okay so long story short my ex and I have been broken up for awhile now and we were friends after we broke up but few months back we stopped talking completely. We broke up for many reasons but one of his reasons was he thought he could do better meaning pull a better looking girl. While we were friends he struggled alot on finding someone to talk to and I found out recently he has been talking to someone. I know my ex taste we would talk about women and what he likes and dislikes and I saw the woman he is talking to and she is everything he is against of. She's a way bigger girl all around top to bottom. He would talk very nasty about bigger girls and that he would never ever even consider dating them because he finds them unattractive he even told me when we were together to not get big. I know for sure she is the first woman to actually want to talk to him because we were friends I know it was only a few months after he started talking to her since we stopped being fwb and I feel like he is leading her on sadly but who knows maybe he had a change of heart. But my point is. Is it wrong of me to feel happy that he thought he would pull better? I mean I know beauty is within but coming from my ex he wanted someone attractive on the outside and I know it's sad to say but she isn't attractive to me and like I stated I know my ex's type since we dated for so many years he cares about looks. I just feel like I'm being evil for being happy about it. I know it's not my business and place but I just recently found this out and I needed to vent this then I'll be good lol.

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