My partner is covered in moles on his back. The sort of dangling gooey ones and has some on his face too. I want to move past it, but it's all I can see. Maybe I didn't notice when I was in the early stages and overlooked it? His body shape, mouth and hairiness are hard for me too. We've been friends a long time and he's a great guy, but I'm just not feeling attracted. It would be ideal for me to get over this since we were friends first and he is incredibly loving. He thinks I'm great. But he also talks about sex in a rather gruff way and wants it all the time. To the point that I feel pressured to perform. He blames it on being so attracted to me even though I ask him not to talk that way. Anyway, I tried posting about this somewhere else in a more blunt way and that did not go over well. So trying again. I'm really torn bc I like and care about him and have put in time. But at the same time, I don't desire him like I should and struggle w the physical aspects mentioned.