I'm fairly new to Reddit. I posted this issue on Facebook a few days ago, and was poorly judged. So I'm hoping for a better outcome on here.

I'm a mom to 3 grown daughters. Ages 33, 29, and 22. My 33 and 29 year old's are happily married with their own families. My 22 year old is in college. My 22 year old has been seeing a man who is 35. At first I was alarmed by the age gap, but I met this man eventually on a family outing and he seemed like he truly cared for my daughter. I learned to just accept them dating.

Once I added him on Facebook. I found a lot of dirt of him. He lied about having a child. He supposedly barely separated from his other wife... plus his Facebook posts are disturbing. He linked his TickTock page to his Facebook. His TickTock page is very questionable. When I messaged him bringing up my concerns and telling him that I don't feel comfortable with him dating my daughter. He replied back with some very vile words and blocked me.

This all happened within the whole month of March.

A few days ago. My daughter called me and told me that she's moving in with him and was just being very defiant during the phone call.

She moved out on the 12th. My last words towards her was that "I hope this man is worth ruining her life." and I told her out of being frustrated that she's not allowed to come home if she's going to continue to date him without our blessings.

I feel like a horrible mom and a AH after thinking about the whole situation.