This is going to be our 18th birthdays so it’s a pretty big deal. Her birthday is in about a week and she has been putting off planning for it despite expressing her want to have a bday party way before.

Today, she sent in our group chat asking if everyone was free in a couple days but then changed it to a day before my bday after saying that her friend (not apart of the group chat nor my friend group) was busy on the original day.

The thing annoying me about this is that before, she was chatting to another friend of mine and the other friend told me that she was planning to have her bday party the week of mine. It’s a week so I didn’t really care and I said that it was fine. However, the day before certainly isn’t. It irritates me that my other friend was the one that had to tell me instead of her, even though it was her birthday. She didn’t even have the decency to tell me. Even better, after talking to the other friend today, she told me that she had told the friend when my birthday was, so she knowingly changed it to the day before my birthday.

I don’t know how to bring this up without sounding like a b-word and I’ve had the other friend say something in the group chat but no one replied and it’s just getting buried in texts. If she doesn’t say anything, I’m just done at this point to be honest. I don’t even know if I want to celebrate my birthday with my friends anymore with this going on.