I am 17 years old and really want too start driving but am also apprehensive and nervous about it too so it’s kind of a mix of emotions for me. I don’t have my license or even my permit yet I have attempted too take the test multiple times and haven’t been able too pass any of the times I have taken it. I get shit from people for the fact I don’t even have my permit quite a bit. Im not someone who generally gets offended by things very easily But people judging me for not being able too drive Is honestly very hurtful Too me because I have at least making an effort too work at it and go too the dmv and get The test taken. My brother drives me too school everyday And I can admit sometimes I do get too the car later than he wants me too so today he was Telling me too just be in the car waiting for him at 6:25 regardless so then I would be on time then I told him if we could come up with another plan cuz I don’t wanna be waiting in the car for 20 minutes. Then my step sister just jumps in the conversation and kinda aggressively says Then just drive yourself and get your license. This really upset me Because people telling me just get your license is really hurtful too me because I’ve really been working at it and been making efforts too pass the test and my step sister knows that so the fact she decided too still throw shit at me for it really angered me and I can admit I kinda lost it. But she didn’t even apologize and just said chill it’s just a joke. Then my dad very nicely and calmly told me I was in the wrong for yelling at her for this Which I partially agree with because maybe I could’ve handled it a little more calmly but at the same time I feel like my step sister should know it’s Honestly a dick thing too tell someone in a rude manner just get your license especially knowing I’ve been working at it for a long while now And on top of that didn’t even apologize and just brushed it off and said chill it’s just a joke after she saw that what she said offended me. It’s just frustrating we live in a society that normalizes throwing shit at people for not getting a license right away everyone has their reasons for not driving and it shouldn’t be a big deal.