I’ve been talking to a woman for about a year now. It’s always been semi flirty between us. We went out once and neither of us really knew if it was a “date” or not so we talked and she told me that she wasn’t ready for a relationship and wanted to be friends. She didn’t want to hurt anyone she said. A version of this conversation was also had yesterday where she reiterated she wasn’t ready for a relationship.

Fast forward to today. I go to visit her on her lunch break at work and she’s sitting down with her boyfriend. I have so many mixed feelings now and have no idea what to think.