A relative in my extended family dropped off save the date invitations for their wedding at my parents home a couple of weeks ago, everyone in my family but me was invited.

I spoke to my parents and asked why? I didn’t interact negatively with this person, infact we barely spoke. I was baffled honestly.

My parents and sibling were taken a back. My mum was actually angry for a while.

Then about a week later the father of this person apologised to my parents saying that this person realised when they got home that my invitation was down their car door.

IMO I think this is a crock of shit, imo they didn’t want me there. If you remember you would just send the invitation, the fact that they didn’t speaks volumes.

My parents speculate that it’s because I broke my leg, they think I couldn’t come.

I also think it’s weird that their father (not them) apologised to my parents and not me. I’m the one that was excluded, not my parents.

The thing that hurts me is that my parents are now talking about this wedding and booking a hotel to stay overnight. Twice now I have said “oh that’s the wedding everyone but me was invited to”, and they both look at me and just say nothing and then start talking again. It does annoy me that they have moved on from this and are condoning this.

I am hoping my sibling doesn’t attend.

The thing is, I have Asperger’s and find that people have thin sliced judgments of me and exclude me from things all the time out of prejudice, never anything on my part.

AITAH for thinking that this was intentional and getting hurt at both my parents now nonchalant attitude and this person excluding me for no reason?

I genuinely cannot think of a reason as to why I was excluded as I have never had any hostility with this person. 🤷‍♂️ at the time everyone in my immediate family was shocked at this.

Either way I won’t be going if they do now send an actual invitation to me.