A little back story I have a friend let's call her Claire of 4yrs she's very bipolar and her mood switches really quick she has a boyfriend at the time she was trying to get away from him and I haven't dated a man in 6yrs bc I thought I was lesbian but this guy I'm dating we will call him Tim I've worked with tim for a whole yr I know him I've hung out with him I'm highly comfortable around him and had me falling for him and didn't realize it until I tried hooking Tim and Claire up but now she's talking about marriage with her boyfriend one minute then talking about getting with her ex the next she got highly pissed when I told her my feelings for him so how do I tell a bipolar chick I'm dating him now am I the asshole