sooo I was seeing a guy 6 months ago, kind of exclusively. i’ll admit he was definitely more into me than i was him but i did have feelings for him and we had a great connection. i had a family member pass away and ended up ghosting him because of this. it was a terrible way to end things and i wish i communicated better, i was just really struggling and grieving. anyway, after i ghosted him i unfollowed him on instagram and he did the same. but to this day he still likes all my tiktok videos and reposts (im very active on there). i have kind of been missing him and want to reach out and try rekindle things. should i text him? follow him on ig again? or will that make me look stupid? does this make me an asshole?