So, for some context I (ftm) used to be in a Group Chat with some of the kids at school. There was about 6 of us, and one of them was J (mtf) (I'm not too sure about the truth to that, and you will see why later). J was in a relationship with one of our friends, X ( ftm) for about a week and then called it off. I didn't know why at the time, but I later found out it was because J in love with one of our other friends, C (F) C was 12 at the time. (J also had feelings for me). C is a lesbian, so J decided to claim that they were trans just to get C to like them.

I found out later from X that J (during and after the relationship) had been a complete Ahole and had been spamming him with emails telling him to KHS because he wasn't replying. During this time, X's solar panel on his roof has exploded and shook his house, giving him PTSD and ensued following Panic attacks during firework shows, etc. J's following messages varied from "Deserved it" and "do you have a vid, bc it would be cool to see". Before my transition, J also spread rumors that we were dating and had adult activities (I was 12 and also am Asexual, Demiromantic). J has also been faking mental disabilities to gain sympathy and manipulate anyone they can.

J had a massive fight with the whole gc, and ended up getting their email taken by the school, but J hacked into it to spam them some more. (I removed myself because I was getting 200 messages a day)

Fast forward to present, J doesn't know that I know all of this, and we are in contact, but I am mostly just gathering info for a google doc me, X and C have made to send into the school and/or the police.

TL;DR my 16 yo friend faked being trans to get a 12 yo lesbian to like them, spread rumours, and faked mental disabilities, and was just a complete a-hole.

So, Am I the AH?