Me (F19) and my friends regularly hang out, recently a new bloke (M19) has joined out group and swiftly became a good friend.

Slowly two of my feiend (they are a couple.) have triend to push us into a relationship, he caught feelings for me but i dont feel the same as i have just gotten out of a long term relationship due to many reasons, im trying to work this out with my ex because i still have strong feelings for him as does her but we arent currently meeting eye-to-eyr so we have taken a break to work on ourselfs. He is aware of this situation but had put alot of pressure on me to move on he often says 'you should move on', and 'you deserve better.' and im aware he has these feeling for me.

Around two weeks ago my group headed to his house for a frw drinks, he had progressively gotten worse and more touchy over the corse of the night, i was serverly uncomfortable witht his which i told my other friends. My friend attempted to try and ease the situation by sticking by me but he kept trying to get me alone to 'talk.' He attempted to kiss me three times in which i dodge them. Eventually i laid down with him on the bed (the whole group was in the room and on the other girls was ontop of me.) and he began to cuddle me which i pushed him away.

The next morning i made it extremely clear that wasnt look for anything but friendship between ud, he seemed to have a good understanding of this or so it seemed.

fast forward today when four of us hung out at a house drinking -- before me and the other girl arrived he was perfectly sober, eventually he started acting like he had drinken heap (he didn't) and began acting weird once more. He was touchy, pushy and even called me his girlfriend when i left the room saying ; "Oh no my girlfriend left." He sat with me which was fine up til he layed on me. He attempted to tale off my shoes which i responded negatively towards. When this didnt work he began to bring up all he issues.

From what he confined in me, he has many mental issues -- BPD and ADHA, and struggling with grief of his grandparents which ive tried my hardest to help with but he doesnt seem to want to seek professional help. i feel as though he put alot onto me and its been making it difficult on me if im honest.

anwyas,tonight he began to cry and act like a child if im honest, he was hitting things, he dropped pizza staining the carpet which was white, he split alcohol on the couch and broke a table. he was say how we all hated him and made the night uncomfortable. Use three tried to continue having fun by it was hard with a stumbling not drunken disrespectful idiot. (harsh i know but im over it all.)

Me and the ither girl made up an excuse to leave quickly, when arriving home i was greeted with texts saying; 'im sorry.' 'i love you.' 'i know you hate me' 'good bye'. He made a group chat saying he was going to hurt himself and see his grandparents. i didnt know how to respond, after a while i snapped.. it was harsh and i regretted it but i did it.

What i said: I knwo youre struggling, and ive tried my best to be supportive but i cannot do this whining anymore. it hoesntly seems like youre trying to get attention from everyone ---- and im not here for it. i get you like me, but i dont like you. you know this, im sorry youre not able to understand this. Youre making me uncomfortable with your advances, i dont hate you i just think we need to stop.

My friends said this was a fair response and since that text i haven't gotten a reply (im on opened.), im aware its later and he might be sleeping it off but im actually worried he would hurt himself like he said, what should i do to fix this all? i thought i made it clear that i didnt want a relationship with him but maybe i wasnt, i really need some advice.

Sorry if there are many spelling errors, this was a rush and im fairly exhausted.