Hello. I am J(18f). My sisters are B(16f) and A(14f). My whole family struggles with my sister B(16f). She is always causing problems that disrupts our lives. I feel so badly that I am saying this stuff about her, but I am at a complete loss. She is so manipulative and she is always so disrespectful. She doesn't care about anyone else but herself and she says that. She is always insults others and their characters, but says we can't do that or else we will go to hell. She uses religion to justify her bad behavior. She always defies my parents, which really sucks because it affects them and their relationship. My parents work so hard and she always disrespects them. They can't even dicipline her because of how problematic she is. She called my dad a liar this morning because he woke her up a little later at 4:45am when she wanted to be woken up at 4:30am. She has missed so much school that she might get in trouble for it (truancy). So my dad who works 2 jobs and 60 hours a week has to stay home to make sure she gets to school and makes him miss work time. I hate her for all of the disrespect she has towards my parents. She is so privileged it is disgusting. She causes hell whenever she is slightly upset about something. The whole house is suffering. Last night, things got so out of hand that the police had to be called. This isn't the first time the police had been called. It is so embarrassing. As I type this, my dad is yelling at her right now. I hate her for what she has done to me. She steals my stuff, my money, and destroys my items. She always insults me. Whether if it's my character or looks. I hate her for how she treats my 14 year old sister. She is so disrespectful and rude to her. My 14 year old sister is currently getting diagnosed with Autism and meanwhile my devil sister wants to egg her on, knowing that A cannot deal with it. This is horrible. I get panic attacks all the time with B's horrible behavior. I resent her so much, but I don't want to. She is just genuinely horrible. She does not have a good personality and I am just exhausted. What do I do? How do I stop resenting my sister? Has anyone else dealt with problem siblings like this? AITAH for hating my sister? Thank you for reading.