so for some context i am a teenager and my home life is shit if u want to know more check my profile/community. i am a female and my boyfriend is a year older than me with all the stuff happening at home he is the only person who understood i was broken he had a similar childhood and he understands me he protects me. he and i have known each other for 3 years dating for 5months. he and i met at school i was crying during lunch and he saw me and comforted me that moment on i fell for him. and 2 years later he asked me out and i said yes. he and i are extremley popular but he has remained loyal helping me through my hardships and helping remain positive even though its hard. all the problems began when a teacher ( i go to a strict asian school) caught me kissing him it wasnt like a lip kiss he had a bad day and i kissed his forehead they called his parents and my parents too no basically only my dad ( find out why i said dad in my profile) was furious with him and me he made me "break up" with him, i didnt. but his parents are taking him to another country he does not wanna leave he cried in my arms but he has togo. hes leaving this month without him i dont know what to do only he knows about my life non of my friends do and i will never tell them. if he leaves i might start self harming again i am so lost i need therapy but my dad thinks its a bunch of bullshit and wont let me so AITAH for having a bf