So a few weeks ago I saw a hot guy (fake name Tom) at the tanning salon near my home and spoke with my friend who works there about it. Should mention that I am a gay man so the story makes more sense. Didn't see him again for a while and said to my friend, let's call her Megan, "Hey, if you see him again, give him my number." Didn't think anything else really about it. Well today I went to tan and Megan said she gave Tom my number. I said ok cool, I'll tan and talk to you more about it when I am done tanning. When I come out of the tanning room, Megan tells me that Tom is there and he is almost done with a quick tan and I should say hi because he might not remembered me when I first saw him. So I stayed a few minutes, introduced myself to him and he said," Hi, don't know how to say this but I am not interested." Ok, cool, no problem. I left it there, TBH hurt my feelings a little to be flat out rejected by a stranger for no reason but oh well.

A few hours later I get a text from an unknown number asking me if I am my name and if I go to this specific tanning place in my city. I said yes and assumed it was Tom saying he wanted to apologize because how he said no seemed kinda harsh. But no, it was his husband and this guy started freaking out at me saying that I was harassing his husband, and that he is going to meet me at the tanning place. I asked if it was a threat and he said yes. No I can defend myself but I don't know what is going on and felt this dude is using steroids based off the images I was able to find on Facebook once I found his full name. And based on those photos he has some anger management issues caused from using the roids and I base those opinions on his interactions with me.

But am I the a hole for hiting on a man I didn't know was married?