I (22F) went on a date with a guy I met online (25M). We talked a lot before the first date because we kept getting sick. We got along well enough, and I ended up sleeping over (he also lived an hour away from me). After the first date, it was clear he was VERY interested in me and made a lot of over-the-top statements that I would just laugh off. After this date, I went on a deep dive online and found some things that overall were just a turn off for me. Regardless, I chose to go out with him again to just see if I was overthinking things and being avoidant for no reason. He was supposed to come up to my town for this date, but last minute had issues finding a ride, and after a while, agreed that I could just drive down again. I got there, we got lunch, and went back to his house. We just sat around barely talking, had sex (although he didn't even kiss me...?), and then just sat in complete silence. I could tell he was falling asleep, and I got annoyed. In relationships, being lazy and not doing much is one thing; on a second date, is another. I played BlockBlast for a while on his iPad while I debated just getting up and leaving. Eventually, I made up my mind and got up and started putting on his shoes. About an hour and a half had gone by with no talking at this point. He woke up and I said, "if this is all we're going to do, I'll just do it in my bed". He said he thought we were just "chilling" and offered to walk me out. I said I was fine, walked out, and drove back home. He texted me and apologized and insisted that he had no idea that anything was wrong. I responded and said that I just think we weren't compatible and that I expect more out of a second date.

I've just been uncertain if I was acting like a brat or if this was an understandable reaction.

PS I know his ass is on this site and if he reads this, I have no interest in seeing you again, sorry.