My boyfriend is planning on joining the military after high school. We’ve been dating for almost a year now and we’re truly in love. We’ve had some small problems before, but he’s indicated that he is truly head over heels for me. I just feel like I can’t truly reciprocate his love for me. He has told me that he has plans on joining the military, unfortunately, I don’t think I can wait for him to back. Should I break up with him before he joins or should I wait? I genuinely need advice!