Hello.

My (38M) friend invited me (32F) for a night out last night. I was sick for a few days and after finally starting to feel better, I accepted the offer and joined my friends in a bar.

we spent a good 6-7 hours time already and I said I'd like to catch the last tram and head home cause I was starting to get unusually tired because I was still in recovery. they insisted I'd stay more and spend time with them more, I couldn't resist. After spending a good 2 more hours together, they decided they'd spend the night in my friend's house, which is only about 10 minutes away from my own home. I again declined saying I'd like to go home cause I was still sick and feeling unwell, not in a condition to keep drinking, I just wanted to sleep. We met at 4:30 pm and it was now 2:30 am.

This became a huge turmoil. They kept insisting disregarding how I feel, to the point I just had to say no with a firm voice and start walking to my homes direction. now the next day I get a call from them saying I'm doing this for the second time now (first night was the first night of my sickness and I was just unwell.) and they will stop inviting me things at this point because I always make a scene and leave people to go home even though they just want to hangout with me. no matter how I try to explain them my condition, the result never changes. Whenever I say they don't accept no as an answer, they say this is how people communicate and I'm at fault.

I literally don't understand what's wrong of me trying to go home to get some sleep when I'm unwell.

AITAH?