📝 AITAH for leaving my sister on her birthday

By Coco_love-05 • Score: 2 • April 6, 2025 4:55 PM


Last night was my older sister’s birthday, and I had planned to spend the whole night with her since she was there for me during my birthday and weekend. However, I ended up leaving her because of a situation with two friends we now share. I introduced them through work, and my sister ended up liking one of them, but both of them liked her. The issue is that they started excluding my other friend, which felt disrespectful. We were all getting ready to leave, and my boyfriend picked up the two friends in his car. As we were walking out, my friend, who was being left out, asked if she could ride with my sister, but they said no. Later, I found out it was because the car was packed, but they could’ve all fit in my boyfriend’s car, so no one would’ve been left out. I ended up dropping my excluded friend off with them and went home. I just didn’t want to deal with the situation since I knew it would be uncomfortable, and I’d have to essentially babysit my friend the whole night, like I did during my own birthday weekend. Honestly, I didn’t even want to invite these friends to my birthday, but I only did because my sister wanted one of them there. I just don’t want to be involved in this drama anymore.

So, AITA for leaving? I just knew how the njght would’ve gone, I would’ve had to baby sit my friend and have her always pushed onto me, instead of me being allowed to have fun.

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