I am a 30M and my ex wife 29F we have been married for 3 years till I turned 29. When I was 29 I found out her daughter wasn't biologicaly mine she cheat on me with a random dude.

We got married at when I was 26 and she is 25.

For the past 1 years I have been running and hiding from my family and in law's family and law and order.

Let me paint a clear picture to you. When I found out that her daughter wasn't mine I filed for divorce. Initially I thought I wouldn't pay child support and alimony to my cheating ex wife. But the AH judge ruled against me and order me to pay child support for 18 years with addion to set up a college fund and wedding fund for her daughter. According to the law here the child is conceived during the marriage period and also I'm in the birth certificate so that will be my responsibility.

Now the point is my family. They are dead set on me to fix this. They are thinking I'm at the wrong here for not letting go of the past and wants me to Man up to take care of the child.

So I left . Left the country, left my job and left my previous life.

Now after one year, I don't know how but they find me again. But thankfully I'm at UAE and here laws doesn't favour the cheaters.

So reddit again asking you guys . Am I the AH for living my wife and her affair kid.?

Edit :- English is not my first language.