I (24f) broke up with someone a few months ago. he (26m) was good to me like, really good he listened, remembered the little things, sent me memes when I was sad, always made sure I got home safe. we didn’t fight much, and when we did, he never raised his voice just wanted to talk things through but for some reason…

I don’t know I felt like something was missing there wasn’t that fire, that chaos I was weirdly used to I kept wondering if maybe I was settling, even though he gave me peace and so one day, I just ended it told him I didn’t feel it anymore. he didn’t even argue, just nodded and said “okay. I just want you to be happy.” and let me go it’s been a while. and I can’t stop thinking about him. he hasn’t reached out hasn’t watched my stories it’s like I vanished and now I keep wondering if I made the biggest mistake of my life. I thought I wanted excitement, but all I’ve found since is people who treat me like an option I miss the way he looked at me the way he just got me without me having to explain myself I didn’t know how rare that was until I tried to find it again so yeah.

AITAH for walking away from someone who did everything right… just because I thought love was supposed to be louder?