My boyfriend (28) and I (25) have been dating for 5 years . He just proposed me with a ring to marry few week ago but he doesn’t want to hurt his sister feeling by getting married first he says he doesn’t want to add the stress on her and his family by forcing that he should get married first. His sister is not able to find a suitor because of her short height He says if he marries first his sister will have issues in finding a suitor her to be family will think younger brother got married but elder sister is not able to find one. Im struggling with this emotionally and don’t know what to do

Because he is clear he wants to prioritise his family emotions because they are in stress

He is asking to wait until hers get fixed