I (29F) and my husband Josh (32M) just bought a house last year. He has 2 brothers (25/35) that work on/off but never can keep a job. They currently live together renting one bedroom out of someone else’s house. GOOD in my opinion if you don’t want to work then this is how you live, sorry.

Well My husband just started a landscaping business and thinks it’s a good idea for his younger brother to come stay with us a few nights a week for cheap labor. (Brother doesn’t have a car so if Josh was gonna go pick him up for work it would be an hour drive) For some context, he has lived with us before for about 3 months in our old apartment and: NEVER helped with cleaning, would sit there and eat an entire bag of chips and leave shit everywhere, NEVER applied for jobs (this is why we eventually kicked him out), played video games all day in the living room while I was teaching ONLINE during COVID when my one thing was stay out of the living room because I’m teaching and he would constantly yell cuss words at the screen.

Josh feels like it’s smart and will help his brother work and make some money. I don’t. I think he’s gonna get comfortable sitting in our house where he has his own room, smoking chilling eating all our food and then he’s NOT gonna want to go get a job of his own!!!

SO, AITA if I am going to go out of my way to make things hard for my husband so he sees this is not something that makes sense for us? For example, I use the hallway bathroom when I wake up for work bc I go to work early and I don’t want to wake Josh up. But I have moved all my stuff into our master bathroom connected to the bedroom and am going to be unusually loud the next few mornings getting ready. I’m purposely not cleaning because it’s not my JOB to clean up after another grown ass man! If im NTA, what are some more very subtle ways that I can make my husband uncomfortable so that he won’t want his brother here anymore??