This morning, I (18F) walked over to the small kitchen shelf in my shared dorm to grab cereal. Reaching for a spoon, I do not see the large glass vase that is balanced on top of paper cups, about six feet off of the ground. To my dismay, the vase falls onto the fridge underneath the shelf and then onto the ground, barely missing my foot. I did not realize at first, but after picking up my phone that was knocked onto the ground from the fridge, I realized that the vase had fallen on it and shattered the screen. I was livid as I have told my roommate (19F) many times that her things are too crowded into that space anyway and have politely asked her to move things off of that shelf, which she has failed to do even after six months of telling her. I was also confused as to why a vase was stacked up onto our shelf since we have agreed to only store food items there. When I texted her about what happened, in a very nice way, acknowledging that it was a mistake and I was not mad, she told me "i'm sorry that happened to you." Mind you, this girl apologizes for EVERY little thing, with no real meaning behind it, so I at least thought she would own up to her actions, but no, nothing. I had just gotten my phone screen fixed a few weeks ago, and now I have to do it again, and she doesn't even feel a little bad. We are on opposite sides of the spectrum when it comes to money, meaning her parents have a lot of it, and provide whatever whenever she wants, but to get this screen fixed is a hefty purchase for me. So idk, am I the asshole for wanting a little more remorse from her and possibly helping me out a little with the replacement cost?