I’m 24 years old and my sister is 4 years younger than me, our brother got her (and perhaps me) sick with cold like symptoms and she got tired, i don’t know how tired she was but we have chores and responsibilities around the house and we usually divide it between us to finish things fast.

so, i was told to do the dishes and i did my part, i washed most of them and left out the pressure cooker because to be honest i really dislike washing it, it’s not too big or too small, it’s used to boil meat or whatsoever, so i left it for my youngest sister to wash, i cleaned the lid, and all the dishes so the only thing left for her was the pot itself, just one pot, no lid. here where i might’ve been the asshole, i told her to clean it around noon and she ignored me, fast forward to 11pm, i remind her to clean it and she said she is tired, i went ahead and cleaned the kitchen and came back again and asked her to clean it, only one pot, no lid. she got really angry at me and said she has a fever and is too sick to work, mind you that she made herself some snack, 10 minutes earlier that time and was sitting on her desk scrolling through her phone & laptop while eating, i told her that i washed everything and only ONE pot is left and she started threatening to pray against me, to make me fall sick, then she said that i was making her work and do unnecessary stuff, we fought and i left the room and cleaned it myself. i only asked her to clean it because she wasn’t bedridden or too ill to move. and for the record, i know that our brother got either one or both of us sick.

am i the asshole for asking her to wash/clean the pot?