📝 AITAH for moving on from my sisters friend ?

By Only_Guide3377 • Score: 0 • April 6, 2025 11:43 AM


when I was younger I liked my older sisters 'best friend', she always spoke bad about her, when my sister left skl and her friends stayed on I felt more relaxed which lead to me making a friendship with her friends as I didn't feel held back. I got quite close to this girl but developed feelings, she had feelings back, but as I got closer to her friendgroup I learnt more and more, she is v flirty but not the normal banter, she would have different guys on the roster whilst saying she rlly rlly liked me.

I'm not the kind of person who cant tell my own emotions, I don't date, I get scared of opening up because of my past and how family treated me and therefore I don't get if ppl do or don't like me but with her I knew because my heart would drop, I'd go bright red, so I wanted her and she said she wanted me, I had never felt this way before. but every time for about a week we'd talk non stop she'd completely stop talking to me and id see her with someone else, she said she's bi but would always ditch me for some guy then tell me about them. one of them she texted NEXT TO ME and said it was her cousin, that day was the first day she kissed me, anyways skipping time now of me getting fucked over 7 times.

my sister was on call with ppl downstairs which is odd cause she never goes on call, I heard her voice with 2 other guys and they where planning to meet, i ask my sister what she was thinking as she doesn't like this girl and she knows I rlly rlly liked her, so I went for a late night walk I texted the girl and said my peace and asked questions, i also told her someone is joining the skl that I told her abt before. this new girl really liked me like alot for years and my sister friend seemed unbothered. she said she liked this guy and got rlly moody so I said okay we won't talk.

After a while the girl who liked me, we'll call her ali, joined and when In a group she'd stare at me admiring me and I've never had anyone be like that before but she knows I don't like her like that, but one day she was bored and so was I, after skl we met up and one thing led to another, the next day I woke up with a massive hickey on my neck, I didn't realise till I looked in the mirror, now I heard my sisters friend had been moody and not talking to anyone for a week now and given the new girl dirty looks and glares, so I went up to her asked if she's okay and I kept getting ignored, after a while she broke and she said "look at your fucking neck what do u think" I was shocked but I was late to rehearsals so I said that we'll talk abt this after and for her to wait for me after. after we met up and EVERYTHING came out she said she loved me and cared for me and now I fucked her over and so I said that she fucked me over 8 times and asked her how does she think I felt, I always have a soft spot for her so when she told me she cried to her friend on the hill on the way home I felt like crap, we where a secret it was a secret thing apart from my best friend who's her mate knowing, so I was surprise she did this, I went to comfort her and she just ran off. later I found out the boy she cried to she got with that day. so what I'm tryna ask is AITAH for moving on?

(I have alot of AITAH , about this girl and other ppl in situationships)

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