I (18F) and my roommate (19F) are both freshman and live in double together at a public university, however, my boyfriend of 2.5 years lives in an apartment a few minutes away and I pretty much sleepover there every night. I usually spend the day either in class with friends or in the dorm and typically leave for my boyfriend’s around 9-11pm. My roommate hasn’t directly expressed that she’s upset with me not sleeping in the dorm however when we were out with friends she jokingly said she “feels like she lives in a single.” This upset me and made me feel like a bad roommate but here’s the thing. My roommate and I have completely opposite schedules as well as different social personalities, I typically wake up at 6am get back to the dorm from my boyfriends at 6:30am and usually am busy throughout the day studying and return in the afternoon/evening. So I spend time in the dorm but she’s typically napping and in the evening she has her boyfriend(?) over. My roommate is more lax and stays in the dorm alot more, stays up to 4-5am and wakes up closer to the afternoon. I always invite her to go out with me and friends, shopping, the gym, whatever event. She has said she likes being around people which is why I believe she’s upset, but I personally love alone time and my boyfriend is just comforting alone time for me. So I make an effort to have quality time with her, is it such a crime I sleep at my boyfriends especially now that she has the dorm alone with her new boyfriend??