Context : Everyone I mention, I’ve known less than 2 months. We’ve just started living together and have all already become close.

I’ve been ill the past 3 days with something I am prone to. On second day of feeling sick, I was throwing up blood. I told two friends (Call Ally&Blake) around 10PM while getting food. They were really worried, Ally calls a medical helpline. I was told I need to be taken to E.D. Ally has a car so her and blake would drive me to hospital. They said they might not stay with me the whole time which I understand. Friend Chloe says to Ally and Blake (not me) that she’d come support me, which I was fine with. We spent 2 hours at the hospital and they all stayed the whole time. Chloe was the most helpful that night and offered to go to the pharmacy the next morning (without me asking) to get my meds.

After discharged, Chloe and I were waiting for the other two. I went to hit my vape. I’d told the doctor I vape, and wasn’t told to stop vaping, same as my GP. I barely vape when I am sick anyways. She took my vape and said I can’t use it as you’re sick; too tired to argue I let it go.

Later, at lunch with Ally I ask for a vape. She asks where’s mine, I said Chloe has taken them until I’m better. She tells me that I need to tell Chloe that it isn’t ok, if I didn’t , she will. I didn’t want to escalate things, so I didn’t message Chloe. I didn’t think Ally would, but she did straight up, and Chloe felt like it was an attack. When Ally and I go grab my vape (Chloe had said we could) she threw them at us without saying a word.

Later, Chloe walks past me and I told her that I wasn’t mad at her at all, I appreciate that she cares so deeply in such little time, and that Vaping is not making me get sick. She says she’s mad at me, I should’ve asked, and vaping will make me sicker. Note: I have asked for my vape at least 3 times and been told no because i’m too sick. She also expressed how much she has done for me in the last 24 hours (which i appreciate and have made clear). I tell her that I have been told by doctors that vaping will not make me “more” sick (obviously it may not help how i’m feeling but its not like I won’t get better). She responds with that she doesn’t care and if I get more sick, she won’t care what so ever.

Chloe still won’t talk to Ally,Blake, or me and is barely speaking to others. It’s making a tense space, which I wanted to avoid first place ( by not having a serious chat), as it’s a vape, not worth any drama. Chloe has said she won’t talk until Ally and I apologize. Everyone had a convo, minus Chloe, that no one could agree on. I left halfway through as I don’t have the energy. Ally won’t apologize until Chloe apologizes to me for saying she wouldn’t care.

So now we’re posting on reddit for neutral opinions on if me and Ally ATHA/bad friends