Hello- Mother of 2 here and 7 weeks postpartum. I have a 2 year old toddler and my 7 week newborn that keep me busy and exhausted. My husband and I have been arguing quite a bit lately as he makes nonstop comments all day every day about basically pleasing him. I am exhausted and it is the last thing I am thinking of…. I am on maternity leave so I am with my 2 kiddos all day and I breastfeed so I am the one getting up through the night with the baby not to mention the 2nd degree tear that my body is healing from. He comes home and while very attentive to our kiddos and a great dad, I get no hug, no kiss and he spends basically any down time we have with his face glued to his phone and barely even looks up at me while speaking. He doesn’t go to bed with me and so even without the mention of just recently giving birth I feel very little connection to him and have told him I feel as though I get no attention and his phone is more of a priority than me. Apparently because we aren’t being sexual he has no need to come to bed with me and the lack of connection is then my fault. He says the comments he makes is him flirting with me, I see it as a constant reminder and hint giving. And quite honestly find it annoying. He’s a very sexual person and I understand he may be deprived however I am exhausted, feel as though I’m getting very little emotional support for the season I’m going through right now and feel like all he sees is that I’m not meeting his sexual needs. He says it’s not the fact that we’re not having sex but the fact that we’re not being sexual at all…. AITAH