I (32)F have been with my partner (30)M for 5 years, we have 1 kid together. We’ve had our ups and downs. A lot due to him not respecting boundaries and talking to other women. Last year at an event I saw one of the women he had nudes from. I said something to her, she knew about me and had done it anyway. I said something, we talked and everything was fine. Que his friend’s wife overheard us and later said something to him about it. Which he made out to be a big ordeal, oddly nobody else knew anything. The wife and husband were trying to play “therapist” between us. Though she told him everything I said and mentioned I hadn’t changed in the 2 years she’d known me. We see these people maybe 4 times a year for a weekend or day. I told him I wasn’t comfortable having strangers playing therapist which he ran and told them. Later the husband came to help him work on a truck I overheard him on the phone tell him “she’s here” and when he got there he didn’t even acknowledge me. So at some point I told partner if they can’t respect me they don’t need to come to my house ( it’s only my house). Well he told them that too. We hold events (which I have a large stake in) and the husband helps, wife just comes along. All this was 6 months, a month ago the wife texted me asking what beef I had with her and husband. I don’t talk to them or anyone they know, only partner. Said I didn’t want them at events or whatever and they were only trying to help. That we needed to work this out. It was obvious it wasn’t worth arguing about and I’d had a good day with my friends and family around. So I basically told her I wasn’t dealing with it right now 4 months after everything was over and done with and blocked her number. Over the weekend we had a small event. Honestly they had no reason to even come. Partner invited them to dinner. They didn’t say hi, or anything. She taled loudly as I was trying to order and even interrupted the waiter. They were talking about gross things (to the other people with us) so I barely even ate. I mumbled something about them being to loud while I was ordering. My oldest kid was participating in this event so I went and watched my kid both days. I avoided them both, wasn’t hard. She was hungover so was barely there the first day. The husband did say a few words to me. When she got there she made a point to talk to my friend as he was walking by her. Then later loudly told everyone by name except me and my friend. The next day she was super loud again. I was standing by a mutual friend of me and partner’s, we go out often with her and her husband and her husband and my partner are good friends. The wife went and asked partner if he wanted food from town then walked up to the mutual friend and asked if she wanted anything. So I drove to town and got me and the kids food, I passed my partner as I was pulling out told him where I was going and asked “your good aren’t you?” Since he had a sandwich coming. When it was all over partner told me I had been a b*+@h all weekend. I laughed and told him everytime I turned around I had someone talking to me and talked to everyone all weekend except one, had even talked to the women who had sent nudes. That we were good now. He backtracked after that and said he was over everyone’s crap and I should just be the bigger person. I told him I didn’t want to since the only beef they had with me was things I said in private between me and him and I don’t see them enough to care. That if he hadn’t ran and told them anything there wouldn’t even be an issue. I have defended both the wife and husband before to him. Because they are obnoxious and know it alls, I was trying to get along before. Now I just plan on simply avoiding them.