I’ve been really busy with work and also taking care of my dog who just had surgery. The vet called to tell me that they biopsied a mass from the surgery and it’s cancerous - I texted my friend to tell them and also said that it was super early stage and they were able to remove it all in surgery. My friend wanted to talk on the phone about it but I didn’t have time (they like to talk for an hour or two and i had to leave the house). I said I’d call them later, not a specific time or anything. I was busy all day and didn’t get a chance to call, and my friend texted me early the next am to talk. They said they were really mad at me bc I dumped upsetting news on them and then ghosted. They also said I have done this before and it’s not cool, and they’d rather I didn’t tell them upsetting things if I won’t take the time to talk it through. I’m upset bc a) I do see their point and I feel guilty and b) my life is much busier + more stressful and they don’t acknowledge that. AITAH?