So, to preface this, neither of these people I'm dating. To start. I made plans to move with a friend (let's call them Alex) abt 7 months back. They asked and I told them yes. We made plans yadda yadda. Not a big deal. But then I met this other person maybe a month or so later (I'll call them Danny). I started talking with Danny and things were going well. We both agreed we didn't want a relationship because one, I'm moving and two, they had just gotten out of a nasty breakup. We both agreed countless times we wouldn't date. We start hanging out and they start to catch feelings. So I remind them and strongly reiterate that I'm not looking to date. I'm moving. They say they understand. Okay. We continue to hang out more and talk. They ask if I have feelings for them and I was honest. Yes, but I'm still not looking to date as I know I'm not capable of dating long distance. It feels like they keep pushing for me to change my mind and I keep on telling them I don't want to date because of the move. They keep saying "oh, well you'll just find someone out where you move" anytime I bring up I'm moving. To me, I take it as a guilt trip but I don't bring it up. Recently we had another argument over the same thing we've argued over before, me moving. This is the third or fourth time we've argued abt it. They keep pressing for a relationship and I keep saying over and over and over again that I'm not looking to date. In person, through text, I'm making myself very clear. And every time I do they throw the biggest fit over it. I ended talking to them today, because they keep trying to, in my opinion, guilt me into a relationship with them. I do care about them, but I dont think I could ever feel love especially after seeing how they react to being rejected over something I have been very clear on. They always want to talk abt boundaries and shite yet anytime I place them, they get mad at me. I got upset and just told them "okay. It's whatever." And I think I wanna cut contact. I do feel bad because I do know they like me, but I feel like they're putting so much pressure on my over something I do not want for reasons I've specified way too many times. Idk. AITAH?? Cause I kinda feel like one