My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) are in a long-distance relationship. He often tells me that he’s always horny for me — that just seeing me, or when I initiate something, makes him immediately turned on. But I don’t really experience it the same way, especially when he sends me pictures of his penis.

He recently asked me why I don’t always get wet or instantly turned on the way he does. He gave an example: if he suddenly got horny and wanted to have sex right away, I might not be as into it because I need more build-up, and that frustrated him a little.

I tried to explain that even if I’m mentally turned on, it doesn’t always show physically right away. Sometimes it takes emotional build-up, foreplay, or just the right mood for me, but he rushes it. AITAH for not getting instantly wet, even if I am turned on mentally even if it takes 30 minutes?