My son, 16yoJr in HS, was never really into sports. For some reason him and a few friends decided to try out for the volleyball team - never played before. He made the team, actually I think they just had enough for a full squad. He told us several times about when the first match was and both my wife and I went. We watched 5 full sets in a competitive match and he didn’t get in the game once, nor did several others. I have told him that I am proud of him and to keep it up in practice, your time will come. He seems to have a good attitude about it and I’m not even sure if it bothers him that he hasn’t gotten any playtime in now 4 or 5 games. I have not gone to any of them since the first. I want to support him and his team but I am not very inclined to spend 2-3 hrs watching a bunch of HS kids play that I don’t know and my guy just sitting on the bench. AITA?