So i(22F) have known two girls since high school. Let’s call them Tiffany and Maria. Tiffany and i have always been close and still are to this day.

However, there was a period in our last year of school were we weren’t as close. During this time she became close to Maria. Maria and i had a very rocky relationship from the beginning but we became cool in the end. We weren’t really friends or anything but we were cool.

Fast forward Tiffany and i go to the same college and gradually rekindled our friendship. She was still friends with Maria at the time so she used to come and see her often(she was in a different college but still close to ours). So the three of us start hanging out.

I wouldn’t necessarily call it a trio because at the end of the day, i was always close to Tiffany but at this point i could call Maria a friend now. Tiffany ends up getting a scholarship and goes abroad.

To keep in touch we have our own groupchat & we all talk frequently. Tiffany comes back in town twice a year and our houses are literally 10 minutes away but Maria lives almost 2 hours away.

Because we live so close, i pop in her house and she does the same with me. The problem is Maria gets mad that i’m at her house or she’s at mine because she says she feels left out. But it’s always an impromptu thing. Like do i have to tell her every single time i’m going to see Tiffany or she’s coming to see me?

We all still hangout when Tiffany is in town but when i hang with Tiffany one on one she gets so mad and says we do it intentionally. I don’t have a problem with her being around at all but is it wrong to just want to hang out with Tiffany sometimes? Like i literally have to hide my story every time i hang with tiffany and it’s getting exhausting. So, AITAH for essentially leaving her out?