My fiance and me(both 24) are going to marry this year and we are currently debating about invitations. One of my friends sometimes does not know how to behave properly when meeting new people. E.g making racist/mysoginistic comments towards people without really knowing them. We are also insulting each other to a certain point, but only between really good friends. My fiance does not like him at all, just like half of the invited friends. Now I have to decide between excluding him and live with the possibly negative vibes afterwards or inviting him and making some people uncomfortable.

Possibly important Info: - We see each other on a regular basis in a smaller friendgroup. - He is not a friend I would meet alone.(just the two of us)

Edit: After the first replies I think I should clarify what I mean about jokes we do in the group. The jokes me and the others (except him)are directly about the people in the group and more in the direction of insults againt each other than racism. I should've written that clearer.

Edit 2: Removed wrong description.

Edit 3: Pls just answer if you have actual advice. I get that most of you think that we are all just racist, I got that.

Thx for all the replies, after another discussion with my fiance we will invite him to keep the peace but tell him to keep his comments down. I will update when we had the "talk".

And thx to all the people reminding me to be more carefull with certain triggerwords. I guess that stain cant be removed. Sry for that part.