📝 AITAH for not letting my ex talk about me?

By Ok_Damage2102 • Score: 1 • April 9, 2025 3:53 AM


I went on a tv show with my girlfriend and after my ex posted a Tik Tok with screenshots saying that I was lying. When we were together I asked her if she would be mad if my friend (who became my gf later) and me lied to get on the show and she said she didn't care as long as me and her didn't get together. And then 2 years later suddenly she says that it's a problem and tells everyone that I'm lying. I'm getting hate messages from people on Instagram telling me that I'm a liar.

She also went around after we broke up saying that I tried to hit her. I ignored it for a while but she told someone at work and they came to me about it, so I posted on Instagram about it and someone sent it to her. She said something about me trying to hit her and my friends told me to keep it short because there was no reasoning with her, so I said what happened during our relationship is between us. She's using that as "proof" that I tried to hit her and telling people that I didn't deny it, but I didn't do it. What she saw was me pulling my own hair during the middle of her having a mental breakdown.

She's still talking about it 3 years later and all of her friends are finally coming to my defense but she still won't leave me alone to the point where my friends had to make accounts to say something to her. She even makes new accounts to post about me and then tells people that she had to make new accounts because she's scared of me says I'm harassing her. Yes she posted in here too.

She's being a hypocrite and told her friend that because I still talk about her and defend myself that she should be allowed to too.

I have a text message from her back when we were dating where she apologizes for punching me and my friends said that I should show it to people and tell them that she hit me even if it was on the arm or back.

People are taking her side because she looks innocent and uses her autism as an excuse. AITAH?

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