hey guys. so little back story, before my bf and i got together officially, he told me about a second twitter account he has where all he follows are OF and cam girls. at the time i didn’t care, we weren’t dating. now that we’ve been dating for a few months, and after having a few “incidents” (basically he was following and saving pictures of naked girls on twitter and ig) i feel different about it. when i confronted him about the “incidents”, he tried justifying it saying that it’s not a big deal since he already follows a bunch of accounts like that on his second twitter page and that i was made aware and didn’t care. but like we weren’t dating so of course i feel different now. and he’s also talked shit about other dudes that “only follow OF girls” and i’m like ??? but you do too ??? he doesn’t like or save those kinds of photos anymore, but he still has that twitter and is still continuing to follow more and more girls. i’m afraid to bring it up and start an argument. but i feel like my feelings are valid. i know he watches porn, i don’t care. sometimes we watch it together. but to go out of your way and follow these girls on socials seems a bit much to me. am i being an asshole if i bring it up to him ??

UPDATE: i brought it up to him and we had a talk. he understood where i was coming from, and why it made me feel the way it did. he took all the accounts off and apologized for making me feel any kinda way. we was very loving and assuring. there was no argument at all. sometimes i let the insecurities from past relationships get to me, but at the end of the day my bf is a good man. all i have to do is communicate with him. thank you to everyone that responded to my post 🫶