My friend asked me to walk her dog 3 days as her dog sitter was unable to do these days. In return she offered her partner to lay my garden patio for free (only labour for free).

When we arranged this she asked me to walk him at lunch and let him out in the afternoon for a wee. When the first day came around she asked me to check on him before lunch and let him out if the house is hot. An hour after I let him out she messaged to say she was too stressed about him and if I could sit in her house all day with him, and said ‘X is doing your patio for free and you’re not working’ (for context I am currently made redundant but I am still self employed for a side business which I had a meeting for and had meetings with recruiters so I told her I was too busy but I’d pop over now to check on him before I take him for a walk.

One thing led to another, she left the office and was at home when I got back from walking the dog. Has not spoken to me since, I asked the next day if she needed me to walk the dog with no response. She has also now got all our friends also not speaking to me either. No one will explain what’s been said and this in the only issue that I have ever done (can’t say the same for issues she has caused though).

AITAH?