Hi, I will start by saying one, this is my first time making any type of post on Reddit and I´m not very sure how to do it but I´ve seen people get great advice here so I´ve decided to give it a try, two, English isn´t my first language so I apologize for any grammar mistakes, I (13F) have an astranged relationship with my dad (56M) to say the least, we live in the same house but we never talk or interact other than saying a basic "Good morning", since I remember he´s never been there for me, we could only spend time on his terms which is doing something he likes, never something I like and the few times I tried it didn´t turn out well, the biggest memory I have of him is him forcing me to bike 5km straight at 6 a.m., not letting me eat beforehand, and he wouldn´t stop when I wanted to drink water and kept going which made me panicked that I would loose him in the crowd so I didn´t get any time to drink at all, I was 9 years old and then he forced me to go back to the car, which was another 5km, other than that and him forcing me to excercise myself he doesn´t really do anything with me, he constantly triggers my sensory issues just because he likes to see me annoyed, he didn´t belive I had autism for a while and would scream at me in the car when I cried to him that my old school wasn´t beingb accomodating because "I would stress mom out if she saw me crying", he isn´t violent he just screams a lot when he looses control and can´t accept he might be wrong, after years of feeling like there was something wrong with me and that if I just tried hard enought he would love me I gave up, so to stop myself from getting hurt I just stopped caring about him, it wasn´t easy but it worked, I don´t care about him anymore and I don´t feel the need to, we are strangers, this past few months is like he suddenly noticed it wasn´t just me being a rebelloius teen and that I actually spoke to my mom and not to him he started to complain to my mom (53F), I know this because she told me that he´s hurt but I just don´t feel any type of connection to him after years of not speaking, she´s been pressuring me to speak to him but is like talking to a stranger and I just don´t want a relationship with him after ignoring me for thirteen years, my mom has been becoming more insistant and I´m starting to feel like I´m in the wrong, AITA?