I am tyra 26 and my ex liam 28 were together for more than seven years from the age of 18.

We studied pharmacy and went into same field jobs. We have done well for ourselves. I am introvert and clubbing isn't my thing. We also purchased our own homes and I worked hard to reach this level.

So last year around august he brokeup with me because he thought I am not fashionable enough. Because I wear modest clothes. I am boring. And his co worker Naomi is miles better. Who is extrovert, go to cool places etc.

It was hard for me and I cried for month. But I took therapy and with the help of my friends, I have made myself feel better. I realised I don't have to change for any man. I have gone on dates and felt appreciated.

Last week out of nowhere, Liam contacted me and cried that he missed me. That he realized Naomi don't take care of him like i did. Like when he was in hospital and his family was far away, I took care of him. Like I used to put wet cloth on his forehead, when he had fever.

He said Naomi doesn't listen to him at all and hang out with multiple guy friends and he doubts she slept with many. Like he realized that he lost a gem.

I won't lie i wasn't kind in reply. I abused him all words that I found and told him to fuckk off. Our common friends are saying he is worth a chance. But I don't want to. There are other men who appreciate me and want to date me. But my bestie told me. Giving chance to him will be good because he has realised his mistakes.

I told him that grass isn't greener on other side. I am sensitive and I feel he will hurt me again if I give him chance. Still some self doubts are creeping in. I don't want to be nurse or personal healer who changed a man for good. I feel that works on tv or fan fictions only.

So aitah?