I 18m got broken up with my gf 17f, and it hurt like hell but I knew it was coming for a long time. We gradually drifted apart and developed a quite toxic relationship. It became especially problematic when I tried so hard to help her. I called child protection or whatever it’s called after her parents abused her. And she was very thankful that I did it for her. But then she started using it against me. After a few hours I (I slept through it and watched dragon ball to cope) she texted me begging me to take her back. She has broken up with me many times and every time before I begged her to stay, I always wanted our relationship to work out because we lasted 8 months. But I knew that if I let her back into my life she’d do the same thing. We’d pretend to be happy for a week or two. Then she’d leave me stating that I wasn’t the same man I was 8 months ago. I feel almost like I sponged all of her negative emotions from the abuse and stuff. And when I had a panic attack it was always over shadowed or ignored.

Yeah so I told her I didn’t want to keep the relationship going seeing as she’s already broken up with me on her own accord.