📝 AITAH for not telling my girlfriend I'm bi?

By Goburin-Sureya • Score: 0 • April 13, 2025 8:06 PM


Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year, we're long distance and it's our boths first real relationship. We met a few times before.

I just told her that I think I might be bisexual and she got really angry at me because she thinks it means I'm into a man while we're in the relationship. But I told her I already had this feeling before we got together, but now she's angry at me for not telling her earlier and telling me I'm only keeping secrets from her.

I live in a country and city where being anything but heterosexual is not widespread at all and not very accepted either. My aunt is very religious and said anything that isn't MxF is a sin and god didn't intend it that way. I had a friend group who were also extremely radical and against LGBT+. My father is kind of toxic masculine so I don't think he would be happy to see me be with a boy.

This just means that it just was not easy for me to talk about this to her. I agree that maybe I should've told her earlier but really, I just couldn't. I'm a rather quiet person and struggle talking about myself in general and she knows all of these things, but she's still angry at me and is telling me to find someone who I can trust, as in dating someone else.

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