I (19F) moved out a few months ago after some major arguments with my parents. I told them I got a remote job through a friend - something freelance, flexible hours, and decent pay. They were skeptical but left it alone after a while.

The truth is, I’ve been supporting myself completely and even sending money back home sometimes. I pay my rent, my bills, groceries, all of it. I’ve worked really hard to be independent.

But recently, my mom (43F) found something online about me and lost it. She came over crying, accusing me of lying and being “ashamed” of my life. I tried to explain that it’s not that I’m ashamed, I just wanted space and control over my own choices.

My dad was quiet but disappointed. My siblings aren’t allowed to talk to me right now. I get that I wasn’t fully honest, but I also never asked them for anything. I don’t think I’m a bad person... you can judge for yourself I guess.

AITAH?