Me (20f) and my bf (30) have been together for a week and known eachother for 10 months. I really like him and have been spending lots of time with him. My bf asked me to stay the night as he lives 30 min away and wanted to hang out tomorrow (he lives with his parents and he wanted to set up the couch for me) My parents thought it was inappropriate and said their really concerned about me hanging with a guy Idk. Tho I do know him and we are going slow. They didn't ask if we were together. Tho if they did ask I would of said yes I guess. My bf is super Christian and is super respectful. I've been supporting him thru his divorce before we got together. He doesn't want to cause trouble for me but I'm feeling quite upset. Yes many would think it's a bad age difference but we are responsible and respectful. We have worked together for these past 10 months. I get that they can be worried but I am smart with who I'm with and this guy does not do well with violence and any confrontations. He invited me to move out with him so I can be an adult before we got together and he was inviting others. My mum thought it was great but dad thinks it's not a good idea. I mean I'm in love with this guy. And I'm obsessed. He isn't doing anything wrong. Pls don't tell me to move out. I've been told that so many times now on here. I mean how do U tell Ur parents that Ur 19 who is 20 in a few months that Ur dating a 30 yep guy that is super respectful! Not like he touches me wrong. I don't know what to do! I'm an adult! Am I not?