I 16m and my girlfriend 16f have been dating for almost 10 months now. We recently were talking and she mentioned going to prom as a I junior, (I had previously mentioned this but restated,) my parents are very strict and I cannot go until senior year. I assumed we wouldn’t go. She said that she wanted to go either way, as in wether or not I would be attending. Too long to say exactly, but the way she said it very much so weirded me out. We argued, and had an almost 2 hour long chat about why I would prefer her not go without me. She said she didn’t exactly understand everything I had said, but she decided that she’d rather not go because it made me uncomfortable. This was march 31st. But then now today, April 5th, only a week later, she was trying on dresses for fun and said, “I hope you know even if you can’t go I am dressing to impress you.” This now says that she is going to prom? We had decided otherwise. I am asking if I would be an AH for re-bringing the discussion up now?

TLDR; me and girlfriend argued about prom, she said she wouldn’t go, now today says she will, am I AH if I renting it up?

Addition: thanks to yall commenting me and her are talking it out again and since you have told me I’m the AH for not wanting her to go I’m simply gonna support whatever she says, I hope we come out of this stronger.