📝 AITAH for being mean to my boyfriend cheated on me four times.

By No-Sympathy-8333 • Score: 2 • April 6, 2025 1:51 AM


Not sure if this is considered cheating. I (21) and my boyfriend (22) have been together for 2 almost three years. Last year we had just moved in together and a few months into being together in our apartment I was curious and went through his phone. I looked at the recently deleted portion of his messages and there were 99+. All of them were to women. Some were of him sending nudes to other women or him asking for nudes. Some texts were even to meet up and have sex. I confronted him about it and we argued but I didn’t break up with him because one, we had just moved in together, and 2 because he threaten to off himself. So I stayed. Second time was a few days or weeks later where I found recently deleted messages on his phone again with the same messages like the first time. Again, I confronted him about and and cried and cried so I gave in and stayed. This happened again 2 more times. When this first happened I told him that I think he had an addiction to porn, because he watched it everyday, and maybe he should get help so this wouldn’t happen. He didn’t listen. It was finally during the fourth time where he got a porn blocker on his phone so he wouldn’t look at other women or anything like that. But our relationship isn’t the same anymore. We have constant fights, I don’t think I love him anymore, I don’t get along with his mom, and I just feel so monotone around him. I will be honest and say I do get too angry sometimes and yell at him and push him. AITA?

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